Monday, August 17, 2009

How Erotica Helped Us Overcome Our Lovemaking Problems

How Erotica Helped Us Overcome Our Lovemaking Problems
by: Bettina Varese

Your soul mate might be your perfect match in almost every sense, but do your lovemaking sessions always live up to your expectations? I mean, do you prefer to make love in the evening and your partner is a morning riser, so to speak? Learn how one couple found that erotica books and erotic short story books helped them "get it on".

Choosing between a night time romp and a morning quickie may seem like an either or situation if your life does not allow you the luxury to do both, but if you are trying to negotiate how to share out your lovemaking sessions between AM and PM, you will find that you are barking up the wrong tree.

But the solution to your sexual frustration is far easier than you think.

"We never seemed to take the time to be together just as the two of us" says Rachel, a full time housewife living outside London with her partner Henry and their two children. "It was always a matter of getting the sex out of the way so we could go to sleep, but Henry is keenest in the mornings which was a problem even before we had kids."

Henry says, "It wasn't really the reflex erection that triggered it off for me, but having sex as I woke up just put me in a good mood. The evening after a bad day at work was not an ideal time for me to have sex. my mind would just not be in it."

The solution came in the form of an erotic book Rachel bought off Amazon.

"It turned me on actually, when I found out she had been reading the book, but it helped us even more because it made us more comfortable to talk about our sex lives. It was easier to refer to the book and say what do you think of this story?" laughs Henry

Rachel agrees. "We could be more open with each other and spoke more freely about things. I didn't know for instance that a quick nookie in the morning would mean so much to Henry. The first time I woke him up with a blow job he came home from work with a huge smile still on his face and his arms full of flowers. And later that evening he made real effort to return the favour."

Working out a schedule for sex around kids, housework and other chores can be a tricky business and what finally made it work for Rachel and Henry was a very simple solution.

"We came up with a slight spin on a technique we found on a relationship website, and we called it a mutual appreciation evening." Rachel explains

They set aside one evening a week when, after they had put the kids to bed, they would first plan the next weeks chores, take up any grievances they had with each other as well as things they would like to thank the other for.

"We'd then move on to the "mutual appreciation" by taking a bath - even together if we felt like it, but usually on our own just to have a bit of space between the formal planning stuff and the sexy stuff".

Rachel continues, "Then we'd either get some wine or warm milk or something, depending on the mood, and find somewhere comfortable, anywhere in the house. Usually, if Henry has the bathroom first he'd use the time when I'm in there to put out some candles, music or something to set the mood but it's only as something extra once in a while.

"Most of the time we'll start off with a massage or just sitting opposite each other naked and talk, hug and stroke each other and so on."

"You know, the odd thing is" says Henry, "we may not always have sex that evening. I would say we end up going to bed cuddling more often than having sex, but because we have taken the time to appreciate each other, sex seems to happen more often on the other days."

"I think it is because we no longer think of sex as a chore," agrees Rachel. "We have dedicated two to three hours a week to spend quality time with each other, and because of that we seem to be able to deal with the chores better for the rest of the week."

So if you can't work out if you have the time or inclination for a night time nookie or a morning quickie, the solution is to make time to plan your family time and set aside some regular special time with your loved one.

And if you're lucky, you'll get both!

About The Author

Bettina Varese is a writer of erotic fiction and has published 4 paperback titles and one hardback book with http://www.collectivepublishing.co.uk/

Her books can be found in major UK book chains and in Canada. They are also available online. Bettina Varese has her own erotica website at http://www.bettinavarese.com

Her 5th paperback, "Erotica 5: Bettina Can't Help It!" is published by collective publishing on the 15th of March 2005

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Saturday, August 15, 2009

A woman does not have to be naked to be sexy

Alright, my thinking is ........


A woman doesn't have to be naked to be sexy, beautiful or sexually appealing. Am I right or am I right? I think a nurse leaning over slightly to take your blood pressure can be just as appealing as a secretary slightly leaning into a file cabinet..( i prefer on knee slightly bent so one hip swings slightly to the side) Of course they should be wearing high heels. Heels tend to accent the legs so nicely. It does not hurt the scene if she looks happy with a gleam in her eye.

O.k. now before everyone judges me, keep in mind I am a woman. I just happen to be a woman whom happens to appreciates a woman and her body. I find the many shapes of a woman and her figure appealing and sexy.( or sometimes down right scary) I am not a lesbian I love my husband and his cock to the fullest.(every chance I get) So I wanted that out and in the open. I am not a sexist pig.

Thursday, August 13, 2009

Jessica Jaymes | America's Sweetheart


She’s everyone’s fantasy all-American girl-next-door and HUSTLER Video’s first contract beauty. A superhot 21-year-old, this porn star is as sweet as homemade apple pie and twice as tasty. We don’t know about you, but seeing this American beauty makes us glad we live in the Land of the Free and the Home of the Brave. Thank you, Jessica, and God bless the USA!



Statistics:

Hair: Brown, Eyes: Hazel, Bust: 34, Waist: 26, Hips: 32Height: 5'9, Weight: 110 lbs.
Biography:

Birthplace: San Diego, CA
Age: 21
Favorite Movie: "Xanadu." It's an old rollerskating movie from 1980. I love the style the pretty girls wear-so sexy!
Favorite Song: I love all 80s music...especially early Madonna and Cyndi Lauper.
Favorite Food: Hamburger and fries. I'm a big meat eater!
Likes: Going to the beach, shopping and working out.
Dislikes: Pollution, bad breath and peanuts.
Ambitions: I love to dance and pose nude. I especially love being chosen as the first Hustler contract girl! I am paid to do what I love to do: fuck, pose naked and meet my fans. Larry Flynt has been so good to me-so have all the folks at Hustler. I have performed in so many Hustler Videos and have created a big name for myself. I am officially a Hustler starlet and am proud of it! I couldn't think of a better company to work for.
Best Place to Fuck: On the hood of a 1969 Mustang! Classic cars and hard dicks turn me on!
Best Sex: A couple of years ago my car broke down on Route 66 and I had to call a towing company to tow my car into town. It was a really hot summer day and my tight white tank top was soaked with sweat and clung nicely to my tits. I knew I looked sexy, and I began to get excited. I hoped the driver would be cute. When he finally arrived, my pussy gushed girl juices-he was so hot! I started flirting immediately and the next thing I knew, I was sprawled out in the back of his truck while he licked my pussy clean! I came so hard! Then I decided to reward him for his skillful tongue work, and I climbed on my knees and let him pound my slit doggy style! I had a great time knowing that a car could drive by any moment. And the thought of a second stranger joining in made me hope my car breaks down again!
Favorite Position: Cowgirl. I like to be in total control when I'm with my man.
Questions & Answers:

HUSTLER: Do you like to fuck women?

JESSICA: Absolutely, I love to fuck pretty girls! There is nothing hotter than two hot chicks eating each others' pussies. I love rubbing my oiled up tits against another girl's soft breasts. Such a turn on, don't you agree? Who wouldn't want to see my tongue shoved inside another girl's juicy twat? Check out Hustler Video's Centerfolds #1 and see how I make Tanya James cream all over me!

HUSTLER: Do you like to suck cock?

JESSICA: I wouldn't be a porn star if I didn't love sucking cocks! I think I am a good cock sucker. I know exactly what a man wants and needs. I get all into it! I use my mouth, tongue and both hands. I have mastered the art of cocksucking by tugging on the swollen head with my lips wrapped tightly around it, my fingers pressed firmly under his balls and my other hand is free to pinch his nipples, or, if he is really kinky, then I will lightly circle my finger around the rim of his ass! Most guys love that, it's a very sensitive area! When I do that trick, I am inevitably sprayed with loads of cum!

Lexi Marie | Start Your Engine

Sleek and sexy Lexi Marie is a hard gal to pin down.















Whether it’s dancing at a strip club or hitching a ride with her biker buddies,
this 18-year-old sweetie from Phoenix is constantly on the go.
“I really like men who ride Harleys,” Lexi reveals.
“There’s just something about a guy with a motorcycle and tattoos that really does it for me, you know?”
We’re not big on tattooed hombres, but watching Lexi straddle a chopper sure gets our motor running.














Statistics:

Hair: Blonde, Eyes: Brown, Bust: 34 D, Waist: 25, Hips: 35, Height: 5'3", Weight: 110 lbs.
Biography:

Birthplace: Phoenix, AZ
Age: 18
Favorite Movie: “Vacation 1” Chevy Chase is so funny, and I have a thing for older men!
Favorite Song: “Bad Habit,” by Destiny’s Child. Those three chicks are super hot!
Favorite Food: Sushi. I love raw fish–a spicy tuna handroll always hits the spot.
Likes: Harley Davidson motorcycles, strip clubs, and fashion.
Dislikes: Rainy weather, peanuts, and liars.
Ambitions: I am only 18 and I am having a great time doing adult films and layouts. I’ve always been a naughty girl and I love to strip dance for my boyfriends. I want my adult career to be as fun as possible. I get to have sex with different people all the time and learn what makes me feel good. Eventually, I would like a career in fashion because I love clothes. But I also love taking them off, too!
Best Place to Fuck: Outside in the open desert so I can be as loud as I want.
Best Sex: It was a hot day in the desert so I wore a cotton mini-skirt and no panties. I took a joy ride on the back of my friend’s Harley and we rode through a desolate highway. I got horny from the vibration of my seat so I reached forward and grabbed onto the bulge in his jeans. Looks like he was aroused too! He pulled the bike off the rode and climbed off unbuttoning his pants quickly. My pussy was throbbing at this point so I bent over the seat and showed him my tight slit. He slipped his cock inside me and I came three times!!! I never knew a Harley could be so erotic.
Favorite Position: I like doggie because guys can bang me harder that way!
Questions & Answers:

HUSTLER: Do you like to play around with other girls?

LEXI: Sure, girls are a lot of fun. I especially like to get it on with another girl while a man watches us. My rule is that he is not allowed to touch until he comes first from watching us get hot for each other. She and I would dance real close together and start making out. I would like him watch me suck on her nipples while I slide my hands down her panties and slip my fingers inside her cooch. After he comes from watching us almost fuck, then we let him join in and stick his cock inside both of us.

HUSTLER: What turns you on?

LEXI: I’d love to take on two guys. First, I’d slip on a pair on nylons and rub myself until my crotch is all moist. Then I would want the guys to start licking my pussy while I pinch my nipple with my fingers. Then I’d start sucking one cock so the other guy gets really hot and is begging me to give him some of my sweet mouth too! After taking turns sucking on both rods, I’ll bend over to let one of them inside my slippery puss while jerking off the other guy with my mouth. It would be a happy time for all!

Wednesday, August 12, 2009

Tera Patrick, easily the world’s hottest adult actress.

Tera Patrick, easily the world’s hottest adult actress. Since 1999 this half-Thai and half-English goddess has been lighting up the small screen in such porn classics as Forbidden Tales, Island Fever #3 and Tera Tera Tera.


Statistics:

Hair: Blonde, Eyes: Brown, Bust: 36 D, Waist: 25, Hips: 36, Height: 5'9", Weight: 120 lbs
Biography:

Birthplace: Great Falls, Montana
Age: 29
Favorite Movie: I hate to self-promote, but “Tera Tera Tera” It was the first movie that my husband [Evan Seinfeld] and I made together so it holds a special place in my heart and in our bedroom.
Favorite Song: Any song that has a screeching guitar solo. I don’t know what it is, but something about the way it sounds just hits me in a way that gets me excited and ready to be a bad girl.
Favorite Food: Spaghetti. I guess it’s because all the slurping reminds me of something…I wonder what?
Likes: I like a man who is aggressive. I am very submissive when it comes to satisfying men's desires. I like a guy who knows how to have really hard sex, but then knows how to make love also.
Dislikes: I'm not very fond of bad hygiene, dirty shoes and small penises.
Ambitions: There’s so much on the horizon, I don’t know where to begin! I have a new line of sex toys coming out. I’m working on a book. I’m working on a reality show called, “Rock Star, Porn Star” about my an Evan’s life. And I’m still doing appearances around the country. I’m a busy girl!
Best Place to Fuck: This is going to sound lame, but I love fucking in my own bed. I’m big into being comfortable when I’m with my man and, to me, there’s no better place than my California King
Best Sex: Anytime I’m with Evan it’s absolutely mind-blowing. He knows just what I want: how to talk to me, where to touch me, where to lick me, when to fuck my brains out, when to make love to me. I loved sex before, but meeting him opened up an entire new world of personal sexuality. Everything about him is sexy. Just the thought of him inside me makes me want to call him and invite him over right now.
Favorite Position: Oh God, I’m sounding so lame again…but I really like the good ol’ missionary position. I like being able to look into Evan’s eyes.
Questions & Answers:

HUSTLER: Since you’ve become monogamous with Evan, do you miss being with other guys?

TERA: Believe it or not, I don’t. I don’t think I’ll ever get bored with him. Anyway, we keep things interesting. A little experimenting never hurt anyone and in our case it’s only made us stronger.

HUSTLER: Other than Biohazard, who’s in your CD player right now?

TERA: Oh Gosh…I really like the new Avenge Sevenfold CD. They’re a throwback to the time when metal was all about sex and drugs. We need more bands that really know how to rock!

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